Meet our new friend, Ethan.
Ethan is a hero, through choice and dedication and long-term blood, sweat, and tears. Ethan is a missionary who works with street kids in a gang neighborhood in Honduras. Almost none of these kids have an engaged father. Many of them don't know who their father is, and a few of them are orphans. Ethan is the only father many of them will know. He's the disciplinarian and the source of reward. He teaches them how to behave, how to live without stealing, how to love. Eight of the kids call him "Dad." He has even taken one of them in, and spends much of his support money paying for the kids' school and clothing.
Ethan works in a tough neighborhood. When he drives in, if he doesn't give the proper signal, he finds a gun to his head, held by a gang member. It has happened several times already. Ethan has been tied up inside his own apartment and robbed, again at gunpoint. He has delivered a eulogy for an 11-year-old kid, one of his Sunday School kids, who died due to violence.
Often we think of a hero as a guy running into a burning building to rescue someone. That's a perfectly acceptable definition of hero. But the "burning building" hero is finished with his deed in a few minutes and (hopefully) goes home. Ethan is a more profound hero. Ethan has been risking his life for years to save the lives of these otherwise hopeless kids. He is currently back in the States, raising support to return to his work saving kids.
Oh, by the way, Ethan is 23 years old.
Some young people are dissatisfied with the trajectory of their lives, dominated by electronics, and making little difference in others' lives. Those folks would do well to ask the Lord for a job. Perhaps He would give them a chance to be a hero, like Ethan.